Saturday 11 June 2011

What is a Trial Separation

A trial separation is a period of time during which a couple separates without becoming actually divorced. In some instances, a trial separation does result in divorce, but that is not always the case. In some instances, a legal separation is merely a formality that must be observed in order for a divorce to be granted. Different states have different requirements regarding the amount of time that a couple must be legally separated before they can obtain a divorce. At a minimum, states that require a waiting period typically range between six months and three years. Not all states require a waiting period.

A trial separation may or may not be formalized with the court. In some situations a couple may decide to separate informally in order to take a break from one another, seek counseling and see whether they can work through issues that may be disrupting the marriage. The couple is always able to retain the option to remain married with a separation, even if the separation involves papers being filed with the court system.

Due to the fact that a legal separation can be used in a divorce, it is often important for the terms of the separation to be completely considered prior to filing the paperwork with the court. A legal trial separation is meant to protect both spouses during the separation period. For example, should a couple be legally separated and one of the spouses incur significant debt following the separation, the court papers may stipulate that the other spouse will not be held responsible for half of the debt. Separation papers may also address custody of minor children as well as living arrangements for both spouses and who will remain in the marital home.

When a couple is attaining a separation and feel that divorce is inevitable, it is usually advisable that the couple seek assistance from an attorney in order to assure that all important issues are addressed. It should also be considered that in many states, the couple is required to file legal separation papers before a divorce can be obtained.

The amount of time that may pass between a separation and a divorce will depend upon the state in which the divorce is sought. Some states require a mandatory waiting period in order to give the couple an opportunity to reconsider and elect not to dissolve the marriage. The separation period also provides the couple with the opportunity to work out issues regarding division of property and custody.

There are no actual rules in a trial separation, which is not as drastic as a legal separation. There is no need to file any court papers and the couple will decide how they wish to proceed with the trial separation. Trial separation is quite informal, compared to a legal separation. The couple can choose to reverse a trial separation at any time they choose. There are no attorneys, division of property or custody issues involved with the court system in a trial separation. Still, there are factors that should be considered such as:

Custodial schedule The couple will need to decide where any minor children will reside and the times they will be with each parent. Communication between children and parents should also be addressed as well as access to school information.

Monetary issues The couple will need to sit down and review their budget in order to determine how monetary issues will be handled. A significant part of this will usually have to do with where each spouse will reside during the trial separation. Some couples may agree to a support arrangement temporarily while others will decide that it may be best to finance two households from their joint funds. Child support issues should also be addressed.

Property Couples considering a trial separation should consider all assets and how they will be handled during the separation. For example, they should decide whether to leave funds in bank accounts, divide funds, freeze them, etc. The usage of credit cards should also be clearly defined.

Other matters that should be addressed include health insurance coverage, life insurance policies, W4 exemptions and beneficiaries for all holdings.

It should be remembered that a trial separation agreement will not typically cover all of the areas and issues that a divorce agreement would cover. A trial separation is meant to maintain the situation as it currently stands as much as possible while providing the couple with an opportunity to reflect upon issues relating to their relationship.

The couple may also choose to discuss the feasibility of marriage counseling during the separation in order to work through issues that may be causing dissatisfaction in the marriage. In some cases, marriage counseling may be required the courts as part of the separation period before a divorce will be granted.

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