Why do most men shun the idea of learning how to pick up women? Or, why do they read stuff about learning how to pick up women and never put any of those ideas or techniques to good use? Most of the time it has to do with the reality that most guys are not really out there to become a pick up artist. If you want to get better with women, if you want to get more opportunities to date women, but you do not want to go and 'pick up' any women, keep reading.
Truth is, the best way to pick up women or get dates with women... is to not even look like that is what you are trying to do. See, when most men try their hand at the pick up game... they find that it just does not come out right, they feel weird about it, or they get negative reactions. However, making just a few little tweaks here and there, you can start attracting women very easily and get dates without having to use any obvious routines.
Here is a little advice on how to pick up women without the cheeseball stuff that makes you feel uncomfortable:
1. When you approach a woman, just talk to her as if you really have something to say.
This is much easier than trying to pull off a line, it comes out more natural and it will catch her 'off guard,' which is a good thing. Let's say you are in a store and you see a really good looking woman that you want to approach. If you were to walk up to her with some goofy line, chances are, she is going to not even give you the time of day. That's the reality of it. However, if you approach her and open the conversation with a more real opener, chances are... she won't even think that you are trying to pick her up, and she will be more than open to talk to you. Make a little observation of what she is looking at. You can even inject a little humor into it and it will go over even better.
2. When you are talking to her, actually listen and use whatever she gives you to keep the conversation going.
A lot of men do not realize how EASY it can be to get a really long conversation started with a woman, one of those conversations that she will remember and it starts by listening to what she has to say. Women will feed you little tidbits all of the time and as long as you are paying attention and using those tidbits to take the conversation further or even in another direction, you will probably never run out of things to say.
3. If you want to get her number, GET IT.
You know, so many guys blow their chances of getting a woman's number because they wait way too long or they make things awkward right after they were going great because they linger. Lingering, waiting for the right moment, all of those things will usually do more to lower your odds of walking away with her number. Once you can feel that the rapport and the chemistry is there, get it!
The best way to get dates with women is to discover how to naturally attract women using techniques that she WILL respond to...
Truth is, the best way to pick up women or get dates with women... is to not even look like that is what you are trying to do. See, when most men try their hand at the pick up game... they find that it just does not come out right, they feel weird about it, or they get negative reactions. However, making just a few little tweaks here and there, you can start attracting women very easily and get dates without having to use any obvious routines.
Here is a little advice on how to pick up women without the cheeseball stuff that makes you feel uncomfortable:
1. When you approach a woman, just talk to her as if you really have something to say.
This is much easier than trying to pull off a line, it comes out more natural and it will catch her 'off guard,' which is a good thing. Let's say you are in a store and you see a really good looking woman that you want to approach. If you were to walk up to her with some goofy line, chances are, she is going to not even give you the time of day. That's the reality of it. However, if you approach her and open the conversation with a more real opener, chances are... she won't even think that you are trying to pick her up, and she will be more than open to talk to you. Make a little observation of what she is looking at. You can even inject a little humor into it and it will go over even better.
2. When you are talking to her, actually listen and use whatever she gives you to keep the conversation going.
A lot of men do not realize how EASY it can be to get a really long conversation started with a woman, one of those conversations that she will remember and it starts by listening to what she has to say. Women will feed you little tidbits all of the time and as long as you are paying attention and using those tidbits to take the conversation further or even in another direction, you will probably never run out of things to say.
3. If you want to get her number, GET IT.
You know, so many guys blow their chances of getting a woman's number because they wait way too long or they make things awkward right after they were going great because they linger. Lingering, waiting for the right moment, all of those things will usually do more to lower your odds of walking away with her number. Once you can feel that the rapport and the chemistry is there, get it!
The best way to get dates with women is to discover how to naturally attract women using techniques that she WILL respond to...
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