How to Beat Difficult in Order to Change Yourself

We are always facing with change in our life. Whether you like it or not, change is coming in future.

But why is so hard to change for us, as if all things return its original position.
Because there are four little devils stop us to change, they live in the middle of life. When you understand these four little devils, you can easily beat them and change us.

The first kid is the fear of dreams.

You must have seen this kid, he is hiding in the dark place, every time when you start to dream he will pull you back in your place, and then said don't think foolishly, it is impossible. In many

places you've heard the voice, because this kid is very good at using others' voice, sometimes they are your friends, and sometimes they are your family, sometimes they will pretend the

social reality, tell you with authoritative words, impossible, don't think such a thing!

When we were kids, we had never afraid of dreams. Unfortunately, when we grow up, this kid will start growing. One day, when he was taller and stronger than your dream, you will always

be stuck in the middle of reality.

The second kid is the fear of failure.

This kid is different with the last one; he'll live in your heart. When you start to dream and to prepare a new life, this kid will appear and tell you do not kidding, do not discredit to friends.

Maybe you couldn't to do things at once, because of its imperfect. Your mind is full of nice ideas, but you had never written them out, you have great ambition, but you never take action.

Because the dream is perfect, while, the reality is not perfect.

The third kid is the fear of changeable.

This kid is very insidious, because he always using other people's power, especially the people near and dear to you. The most frightening thing is that this kid will express their kind mind

for you!

When you start to dream, and slowly product some results, you will cause people's fear around you. That is too dangerous, you'd better return. The thing is not fit for girl, you must stop it.

You should enjoy a comfortable and warm life rather than this hard life.

If you meet the third kid, please remember, if you make other people feel uneasy, congratulate yourself. You have started to become stronger, because when people feel unable to control

you, they will begin to control you. Only you know what you want!

The fourth kid is the fear of happiness.

The fear of happiness mainly from lack of qualifications in your heart, we always feel we have no qualification to get happy life. We lack of the ability to feel happiness but happiness.

Are you afraid of changeable? If you want to change your life, you have to dream like a child, as the brave man to experience failure.